Whenever something shocking happens it naturally becomes the talk of the town. Naturally, as time passes and much more shocking things occur, the previous shocking event that preceded becomes old news. It gets buried and put away along with the other former "Oh my god" moments. However, in the case of the character, Hank Pym, this is not the case. By now everyone can see where this is headed, so let's get to it. Hank Pym, regardless of what he does or says in the comics will always be seen as a wife beater.
Now, let's not try to justify what happened. However one may try to spin it the fact of the matter still remains that Hank Pym hit his wife, Janet Van Dyne/The Wasp right across her face. I get that Hank was under immense emotional stress and that he just wanted to prove that he belonged on the Avengers after his screw up in a battle against the Elfqueen, which saw Pym shoot her from behind whilst Captain America was trying to talk her down. But this was of course due to his troubled mental state at the time. He was so troubled that Pym decided to build one of the Avengers greatest threats in Ultron an an attempt to save the day by attacking it's weak spot/fail safe.
Of course Hank's wife, janet finds out about this and tries to stop him which leads to the infamous panel seen around the world. Now, I'm not defending what Hank did. Any form of abuse against both man and woman at anyone's hands (especially those that are supposed to love them so dearly) is a horrible and barbaric act. And that was it. That's all it took. That one event is what is forever engraved into the minds of those who hear the name, Hank Pym. Regardless of what happens, the general consensus when it comes to Hank Pym seems to be as follows: