Living the Superman Ideal

Living the Superman Ideal

You read that headline, and it no doubt suggests the image of someone running around in a Superman outfit, arms outstretched while pretending to fly. C’mon, that’s ridiculous – I haven’t done that since I was a kid – and in an outfit adorned with the warning, “This costume will not let you fly.”

Editorial Opinion
By EdGross - Mar 19, 2011 11:03 AM EST
Filed Under: Superman

Anyone who’s followed the stories I’ve posted at CBM can no doubt tell that I am and have been a Superman fan for nearly my entire life, having grown up on reruns of the George Reeves television series, relished the Filmation cartoons of the ‘60s, skipped Super Friends (sorry, my love for the Man of Steel can only go SO far), was transformed by Christopher Reeves’ debut in Superman: The Movie, and it’s gone on from there with The Adventures of Superboy, Lois & Clark, Superman: The Animated Series, Smallville and, now, anticipation for Zack Snyder and Henry Cavill’s take.

I should point out that the basic morality that was instilled in me as a kid came from my mom, just so that that point is made. But that being said, there is something about the core of Superman that has always touched me and inspired me to do what’s right. Of course, unlike Superman who has had innumerable writers to help guide him in this quest over the years, I’ve misstepped along the way but can go to sleep at night knowing that I’ve done my best in that regard.



Several years ago, writer Mark Waid and I had an extended conversation about the Man of Steel, during which he revealed the reasons for his own passion for Superman, and I was pleased that they mirrored my own: “My fascination with him runs back to when I was a kid,” Mark told me. “What impressed me about him as a boy was that he was unlike any other superhero out there. To me his greatest super power was that he could do anything in the world, and with that power he chose to do the right thing. That, to me, was his greatest superpower.”

Can’t argue with that, and it’s a lesson that I attempted to convey to my oldest son a couple of winters ago when we’d been hit with a pretty major snow storm. I had to drive him somewhere to pick something up, and as we were driving we passed a house in front of which an elderly man was shoveling the sidewalk. The thing about this guy is that he was manipulating a walker with one hand, and utilizing the shovel with the other so that it played out as step, shovel; step, shovel; step, shovel. Doing so he was making very slow but steady progress.

As we passed him, I mentioned to my son that if he was still out there, we’d help him on our way back. My son didn’t seem thrilled, but he knew that he didn’t have much of a choice in the matter. So we took care of what we needed to, and headed home. Not surprisingly given the combination of walker and shovel, he was still out there. We stopped the car, got out and immediately offered our help. The elderly man tried to dismiss the offer, but I was pretty insistent and he ended up happily relinquishing the shovel.

As my son and I went about finishing up the job for him, he leaned against his walker for support, his breath visible in the chilly air as he spoke.

“Thanks for the help,” he said with genuine appreciation. “My neighbor was too sick to do this himself, so I wanted to help him out.”

The opening notes of John Williams’ Superman theme played in my head as I looked to my son and said, “THAT’S why we offer to help.”
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deafheaven
deafheaven - 3/19/2011, 11:08 AM
Great, great story. Thank you for posting it.
Shasvre
Shasvre - 3/19/2011, 11:14 AM
I agree, great story. Thanks for sharing.
Corpse
Corpse - 3/19/2011, 11:21 AM
!
Warpath
Warpath - 3/19/2011, 11:31 AM
Great story I feel the same way about the Man of Steel he always with me.
Exiles
Exiles - 3/19/2011, 11:35 AM
nice article dude
elcaballerooscuro92
elcaballerooscuro92 - 3/19/2011, 11:41 AM
great story, great article
EdGross
EdGross - 3/19/2011, 11:47 AM
Thanks everybody. I enjoyed sharing it.
Tenaciousbt
Tenaciousbt - 3/19/2011, 11:57 AM
I had a very similar reaction to the purity of Superman as a child. In fact I used to look for every opportunity to help someone. If I saw some old people who needed help carrying their groceries into their house I would do it, or give stray dog’s food and water. This one time when I was 7 there was this lady in my apartment complex who had locked herself out of her apartment. Me and my brother were outside playing as usual. When I saw how upset she was I went to her and asked what was wrong. She told me, and I looked up to her third floor balcony. I asked if she locked that door. She said she didn't think so. So I climbed up the building from balcony to balcony, meanwhile she kept urging me to be careful, but before much time had passed I was up. The door was unlocked! I went in and came out the front door. I remember feeling weird being in a stranger’s house, but I felt really good that I could help her. She thanked me profusely. The way I remember it she was in a big hurry but needed something in her apartment badly so she really needed some help. In my mind I was saving the day doing something that most people wouldn't even try, and that made me feel "Super."
fanboy76
fanboy76 - 3/19/2011, 11:59 AM
its amazing the fact that an imaginary character can inspire us to do extraordinary and selfless things. Truly great story. It reminds me of when I was in Iraq. I had a Superman Patch made up of Army dessert uniform colors. I wore it on every convoy and mission I went on as a reminder that I was given a great power in this country of corruption, turmoil, despair, and hopelessness. It was my reminder to always do the right thing no matter what.
LEEE777
LEEE777 - 3/19/2011, 12:00 PM
Wonder Woman Approved! :)

tracydavis001
tracydavis001 - 3/19/2011, 12:01 PM
I also grew up the same and feel the same way ,great article !!!
EdGross
EdGross - 3/19/2011, 12:01 PM
tenaciousbt, that's a great story, too. Good to know that that spirit exists in people.

Anyone else have this kind of story? Just wondering if Superman has had much of an influence on other people.

fanboy76, that's inspiring to hear. Thank you for your service!
113
113 - 3/19/2011, 12:08 PM
Awesome article, that's EXACTLY how I feel about Superman/Clark Kent.

I grew up a Superman fan from mostly watching Superman: The Animated Series, Lois & Clark, and the Justice League cartoons in the mid 90s on. To mirror what Mark Waid said to you, my fascination with him is not that he's the most powerful being in the world and one of the most powerful in the universe, but that he chooses to use all his power to do the right thing.

Superman could impose his will on the world and other worlds with ease. He could easily become like Darkseid, but he doesn't. He could also use his powers to do lesser evil things, he could manipulate world events, he could become an agent of a military, he could use his powers to accumulate great wealth either rightfully or wrongfully. But he doesn't.

THAT simple fact is what makes him more interesting than any other comic book character in my book. Everyone deal with loss of loved one (either in childhood like Batman or when they are older). Everyone deals with the angst of being a teenager (like Spiderman). These struggles are not interesting to me because every single person relates to it. What's interesting to me is something that no other person in the history of the world has experienced, Absolute power and then CHOOSING to NOT wield that absolute power for malevolence.

Also, smaller things like how Superman probably has to struggle tremendously not to punch a person too-hard because he knows that if he truly lets loose he'll unintentionally kill someone. That's a huge amount of responsibility, how does he deal with that? How does he battle the urge to intervene in the political affairs of a sovereign nation (i.e. how does he not interject himself into a civil war or the war on terror?) How do you protect civilians without yourself becoming a political agent of some sort? These questions and many more are almost exclusive to the character of Superman because he is absolutely powerful. These are interesting.

And as a mere mortal myself, how do i live up to his ideal? How do I leave a lasting positive impact on the world. Well, learning from Superman, my personal morality has been largely shaped by the character. I ask myself often, what would Superman do?

I reject the death penalty, because Superman does not execute people. I help people, because I have the power to. I believe in public service because it's a career devoting yourself to selflessness. I walk away from fights because I do not believe in fighting even though being a large man I know I can really hurt people. These are things I internalized from growing up watching the character of Superman, he was/is like a role model even though fictional. And sometimes fictional role models maybe the best kind.
ablee337
ablee337 - 3/19/2011, 12:20 PM
Kal-El would be proud of both of you.
marvelguy
marvelguy - 3/19/2011, 12:22 PM
As a kid, I always heard the great power-responsibility line. Peter Parker is no different than Superman in that regard.
On a daily basis, I hold doors for people and employ similar etiquette. I try to give people rides and such whenever appropriate. When s/he thanks me, I tell him/her "you don't have to thank me for doing the right thing."
BatSupe3
BatSupe3 - 3/19/2011, 12:30 PM
@EdGross- Great story, I've always loves Superman for as long as I can remember. The fact that he could basically rule the world without anybody being able to stop him, but instead chooses to save it is very inspiring. In some ways he's more human than anyone because he cares about all human life and doesn't take it for granted. I grew up watching Lois and Clark and seeing the good that he did every week, as well as the sense of right and wrong instilled in me by my parents, has made me strive to be the best man I can be. I agree that he pretty much sets a standard we should all try to live by. "Truth, Justice, and the American Way!"
golden123
golden123 - 3/19/2011, 12:47 PM
That's an awesome story. Keep doin what's right.
Jables
Jables - 3/19/2011, 1:12 PM
awesome
EdGross
EdGross - 3/19/2011, 1:58 PM
Thanks, RacerREX. The sentiment is appreciated.
USAgent
USAgent - 3/19/2011, 2:05 PM
Fantastic article and inspiring as well! I tip my hat to you.
JLAvenger23
JLAvenger23 - 3/19/2011, 2:36 PM
Reverence to you Ed. Nice article and awesome story! Thanx for sharing it!!
SkaarJones
SkaarJones - 3/19/2011, 2:49 PM
Great article! Superman is the guy that made everyone want to be a hero. Aside from the incredible power set, he's got more of the heart of a hero than any other Superhero.
m73
m73 - 3/19/2011, 3:19 PM
Did Ed really compare himself to jesus?
boredsox78
boredsox78 - 3/19/2011, 4:20 PM
@m73 when on earth did you see that?

excellent article ed! very inspiring story!
Themanwhosoldtheworld
Themanwhosoldtheworld - 3/19/2011, 4:22 PM
nice article Ed... thnx 4 sharing it!
whoa123
whoa123 - 3/19/2011, 4:45 PM
Great article and story Ed!!
theangrytroll
theangrytroll - 3/19/2011, 4:52 PM
Great story. The real reason Superman is the greatestt of all comic book heroes has nothing to do with his powers, or beating up bad guys. It's his heart. His greatest power is the power to inspire, to plant the seeds of hope for the future. That's why he'll always be number one.
EdGross
EdGross - 3/19/2011, 8:47 PM
Once again, thanks all.

m73:

bgharcourt
bgharcourt - 3/19/2011, 10:01 PM
Great article, Ed. I really do agree with you that Superman's greatest strength is his moral compass. In regards to the question you asked, my very first post was on The Man of Steel. It was called My Son Sees Superman for the First Time. I wrote it shortly after my son asked me why does Superman fight to save people. I was a bit shocked to be asked such a question by a 2 year old, even more so that I couldn't answer right away. I had to really think about it, for I know my boy would not let me get away with a "Because he is Superman" I explained to him that Superman saves people because he chooses to do whats right, rather then whats easy. That he has the strength to bear the weight of responsibility, and to give others hope for a better tomorrow. After I finished talking, my son looks at the screen and then up at me, and says,"daddy I wanna fight!" and punches me in the nuts.
m0th3r
m0th3r - 3/20/2011, 6:38 AM
I have always felt that he defied the "Absolute Power" cliche. I also have felt for a long time that this was provided by the traditional, and pure "Americana" raising Clark got from the Kents. This has evolved a bit over time into his moral compass, but this was born out of the idea that the 'heartland' simple working folks have a purity about them. Now we can debate US history and exact facts, but that impression i think is what started him in that role...

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Trapdinsteel
Trapdinsteel - 3/21/2011, 6:45 AM
@ EdGross - great article. It is nice to hear others who feel the same way about Superman after knowing what the character meant to me as a child looking for role models. Despite the fact that he isn't a real person, Superman is something that we can all aspire to be in heart and spirit.

I too have a list of stories to share but my favorite one was one night driving home from a friends house, we were watching movies so I was in sweatpants and my favorite Superman red, yellow & blue t-shirt. On my rainy drive home I see a car in the middle of the road with its hazards on and traffic just driving around it. I was about to do the same thing when I see a woman half out of her car trying to steer and push the lifeless vehicle by herself with no success. I immediately pulled off the road and walked over to her to offer my help. I'm about 6 foot 2 with a shaved head and a muscular build so, in any normal circumstance I can imagine this lady being a little nervous about me walking up to her. Before I walked up to her, she seemed very distraught and like she was just having a really bad day, however, the look on her face when she sees my Superman t-shirt was priceless...like "is this guy for real". So I tell her to get in and steer while I push. I push the car about 20 ft into a parking lot that is off the road. I walk back to her window in the pouring rain to see if I can call anyone for her and I see her and her young daughter (who I didn't realize was in the car) sitting there with big smiles on their faces. After she used my cell phone to call her for a tow, I told her I'd hang out in my car behind them until the tow-truck got there to make sure she got on her way safely. Just seeing the looks on their faces and hearing how grateful the woman was for my help, I could tell for that brief moment I was Superman to them :)
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