An Interesting Moment At a Comic Store

An Interesting Moment At a Comic Store

Is there such thing as a "fake geek"?

Editorial Opinion
By tshin1287 - Dec 29, 2013 09:12 PM EST
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Around a couple of days ago, I visited a local comic shop to pick up a couple issues of the New 52 when I saw a couple of girls walk in. Although this might sound weird, it's not often you see girls as attractive as they were walk into a comic store filled with geeky teens like me and grown men like the owners. They walked in and started to pick up a couple of Hawkeye comics and conversed about it.

I didn't particularly mind them, but one of the patrons in the store that was next to me started talking to his friends that it was impossible for someone to like comics and be an attractive girl. That made me feel... uneasy. Their words were not as blunt as I am putting it now, they were saying some pretty nasty things like how girls like them are only "fake fans" and that they're just liking comics to feel better about themselves. Simply put, these guys thought that these girls didn't really like Hawkeye and went in to only show off their hotness towards us.

This same mentality is also put into the movie theater and at Hall H when I went to Comic Con during the summer. All these guys in the men's restroom were complaining about how only losers watch the films and the real fans are the people who read the comics and lament about how they wish the MCU or DC films were better.

What exactly constitutes a "fan"? I'll be honest, I don't like Star Trek all that much, but I certainly saw the film and enjoyed both of them when they both came out. Would Trekkies hate on me if I were to claim to like Star Trek casually? I find it quite sad when guys and even to some extent girls complain about casual fans or fans that aren't as deep into the lore as others.

The "fake geek girl" and "fake geek" scenario was a major thing on Tumblr and stuff like the sort way back when; even though it died down, there are still guys out there that do this. No wonder why girls hate comic guys, cause we are such jerks to them always purporting that they aren't "true fans".

I guess what I'm trying to say is that everyone should understand that there are casual fans out there. Yes, sometimes there are those hipsters that always claim to be a "geek" or a "nerd" like they always do, but not everyone is a hipster, and likewise not everyone is a hardcore comic fan.

Just my two cents.

-Tim

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Pedrito
Pedrito - 12/29/2013, 10:59 PM
So.... Did anyone talk to the girls?
Finish your story, guy!
tshin1287
tshin1287 - 12/30/2013, 12:41 AM
I went in, over heard the guys talking, bought my comics, then left. I'm unaware if anyone talked to them after I left the store but no one did when I was around.
BenjiWest
BenjiWest - 12/30/2013, 1:38 AM
I just can not believe this even exists!!!! By that I mean Hawkeye fans!!!!
CorndogBurglar
CorndogBurglar - 12/30/2013, 3:36 AM
It sounds like the people that were talking trash are the ones that are the losers.

Does he honestly think that hot girls give a crap about going into comic shops just to show off? They don't have time for that crap.

Also, there are varying degrees of fans for all things. I like football, but I cant sit there and watch it of two teams are playing that I dont care about. I can't name a whole lot of players outside of my team, The Bucs. But I still enjoy watching them play every Sunday.

Same goes for comics, movies, music. Again, it sounds like the people that were talking trash are the losers.

My local comic shop is owned by young guy (he's 30), who is attractive (in a non-gay way) and it isn't surprising at all for him to have good looking girls in there on any given day. They can also give most guys a run for their money at comic trivia. So yeah, hot female comic fans do exist.
DatNerdyKid
DatNerdyKid - 12/30/2013, 4:15 AM
I have quite a few female friends that are very much into comic books-one of them is completely invested in X-23-and they are all really really hot! Applies to other fandoms-I have highly attractive female friends interested in 'Doctor Who' and the like.
It seems to, unfortunately, be only natural for the supposed 'die-hard' fans to criticise those who do not fit into their 'definition' of nerd/geek. Gone are the days when comic book fans were unaccepted and ostracised from mainstream society; nowadays these same fans, perhaps growing 'used' to this seclusion, demonstrate intense hostility to those wishing to expand into such 'nerdy' fandoms, constantly criticising their dedication as 'fake' or 'not good enough'
I weep for the future.
DatNerdyKid
DatNerdyKid - 12/30/2013, 4:59 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3pDhrU6MwZE

This says it all.
WorstUserNameEver
WorstUserNameEver - 12/30/2013, 5:21 AM
Yeah most girls I work with at least love the MCU and (big) DC movies and constantly ask me questions about the characters history in the comics.

Its natural when the majority of 'mass-consumed' movies (and TV soon) is dominated by comic book properties. Finally these characters we all love (and hate) are prominent within the mass public sphere and this results in types of people who would never have considered reading or questioning comics before. Didn't realise some people took so much issue with it.
JoeMomma29
JoeMomma29 - 12/30/2013, 5:40 AM
@ BenjiWest

That is freaking hilarious!
Tainted87
Tainted87 - 12/30/2013, 8:45 AM
Hehehe...
Heh...

It's what happens when people are so insulated by the genre, they become so uncomfortable around anything different or new.

It was hilarious a few years ago at my job, when a coworker and myself were talking about Star Trek - and then my best friend (who wasn't at the time) comes into the breakroom and jumps into the conversation fully aware of what we're talking about. The look on my coworker's face was priceless, and he got uncomfortable and stopped talking altogether.

My friend is a really good-looking Haitian girl.
Lhornbk
Lhornbk - 12/30/2013, 9:08 AM
Would Trekkies hate on you for only liking Star Trek casually? Oh yeah, I guarantee they would. We saw that this summer, when supposed "real" Trek fans were on this site whining about how Abrams had disrespected Saint Roddenberry's vision and how anyone who liked Into Darkness wasn't a "true" Trekkie.
Firgosaurus
Firgosaurus - 12/30/2013, 3:31 PM
Next time. What you do is just go up and cut the chit chat and go for the pussy. Well ask them if they want to share a condom. You take the inside, she takes the outside.
NovaCorpsFan
NovaCorpsFan - 12/30/2013, 3:41 PM
This isn't a problem in Ireland. There are genuinely geek girls I've seen in comic book stores and some of them are quite attractive.

I spent my first day at Dublin ComicCon with two geek girls and they wre attractive and were major comic book fans as well as fantasy and sci fi fans. None of the guys I know that read comics complain about girls being geeky unless it's a matter of, "Ohmigod! Batman is awesome!" Then when you talk to them about it, they know jack shit about Batman.

Girls have every right to be geeky as guys do.
Firgosaurus
Firgosaurus - 12/30/2013, 3:43 PM
LOL,

Hey man your pillows with sexy bitches on it don't count.
Firgosaurus
Firgosaurus - 12/30/2013, 3:45 PM
Fvck real fans, fvck entitled fans, fvck geeks, fvck pretentious assholes.

Fandom should be normal but these so-called fans make it hard for the rest of us to actually like them.
SnapperCarr
SnapperCarr - 12/30/2013, 4:07 PM
Fake fans are the most annoying. I hate when people act like Justice League Unlimited is the greatest thing since sliced bread and everything DC puts out should be like that.
tshin1287
tshin1287 - 12/30/2013, 4:13 PM
@yoassarian, you missed the point of what I was saying, I didn't give my definition of a "geek", I just used the word fan, and I used the "fake geek" thing as an example towards the hypocrisy and bitter attitude towards casual fans that are out there.

And no I don't need to talk to them because I have no wish/desire/need to.

I don't get what you're disagreeing on here, since what you're saying is nothing of which I wrote. I was simply saying that there are fans out there that hate others because they consider them to not be true fans.
tshin1287
tshin1287 - 12/30/2013, 4:17 PM
I'm not defending people who attack other fans for not being a true "geek" or "fan" or whatever. If you didn't get it the first time, I encourage you to re-read what I wrote.
AshleyWilliams
AshleyWilliams - 12/30/2013, 6:55 PM
Love this article.

True fans don't care about this stuff. They just want to talk about comics.
ruadh
ruadh - 12/30/2013, 7:27 PM
What's even worse? I used to work at an adult film rental store, and once in a great while you'd get a single woman come in. All the male customers would slowly turn like zombies smelling living flesh. "Oooooooh, a real one!"

Anyway, nerds seems to always feel the need to prove how much better they are than other nerds. Or, more to the point, how they aren't as bad as other nerds. Along with this goes the whole "I liked it first"/"They aren't true fans" nonsense.

Ultimately, yeah, who cares? I enjoy talking about the things I love with anyone who is interested in those things as well, even if they only just discovered it today. In fact, that's more awesome since it takes me back to the magic of when I first discovered it too. It's one of the best things about my son getting so crazy for Hulk and Spider-Man right now. Do I look down on him for not being into it years ago? No, rather than curse his darkness I shall light a candle.
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