Matt Bomer Denounces Victim Mentality Regarding Losing SUPERMAN Over Sexuality

Matt Bomer Denounces Victim Mentality Regarding Losing SUPERMAN Over Sexuality

Matt Bomer, in a now deleted Tweet, expressed his disdain for those that paint him as a victim within Hollywood due to his sexuality.

By ChandlerMcniel - Apr 11, 2025 11:04 AM EST
Filed Under: Superman
Source: Deadline

In a now deleted Tweet, Matt Bomer had some strong words for those who paint him as a victim. 

Matt Bomer came out as gay in 2012 and has played several gay characters since then. His most well known role to date is definitely still as Neal Caffrey in White Collar, but he also portrayed Larry Trainor aka Negative Man in DC’s Doom Patrol.

The Tweet in reference was towards a news outlet that implied he lost the role of Superman due to his sexuality. The Tweet, via Deadline, read:

“This conversation had nothing to do with Superman, so please stop painting me into a victim narrative for your own clickbait. I love my career and wouldn’t change a thing about it. The conversation we had was about a lack of journalistic integrity, and now you’ve done the same thing. Please do better. I wish you the best always, Matt.”

Clearly, Matt Bomer does not want to be portrayed as a victim of discrimination of any kind. That being said, he did an interview with The Hollywood Reporter back in 2024 in which it did seem as if he was insinuating that he lost the role of Superman at least partially due to his sexuality. 

“I went in on a cattle call for Superman, and then it turned into a one-month audition experience where I was auditioning again and again and again… It looked like I was the director’s choice for the role. This is a very early iteration of Superman written by JJ Abrams called Superman: Flyby. 

He even said he, “...Signed a three picture deal at Warner Brothers.”

When the interviewer asked if Bomer’s sexuality could have been used against him for the role of Superman, Bomer said, “Yeah, that’s my understanding. That was a time in the industry when something like that could still really be weaponized against you. How, and why, and who, I don’t know, but yeah, that’s my understanding.”

His words are, of course, open to interpretation. Regardless of why he lost the role, Matt Bomer has clearly moved on from Superman, even though he is a common choice when fans are asked who they’d like to see play the character, and he does not want to be painted as a victim. 

Matt Bomer has had a very successful career in both movies and television. He has a new sitcom on Hulu called Mid-Century Modern, and was last seen on screen in 2023’s Maestro

Superman will be portrayed next by David Corenswet in the first DCU film titled Superman which was once titled Superman: Legacy. Rachel Brosnahan will also star as Lois Lane, Nicholas Hoult will play Lex Luthor, Nathan Fillion will play Green Lantern Guy Gardner, Isabela Merced will play Hawkgirl, and Edi Gathegi will play Mister Terrific. 

Would you like to see Matt Bomer play the Man of Steel? Let us know in the comments!

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ElJefe
ElJefe - 4/11/2025, 11:04 AM
He would’ve been a great Supes … but Flyby, aside from a horrible name, had a weird plot. But that’s back when nobody really knew what to do with CBMs and now it’s pretty much just Sony that’s still confused.
KurtCrawler
KurtCrawler - 4/11/2025, 11:53 AM
@ElJefe - I love that Sony somehow has only gotten worse. They had the formula for Spider-Man 1 and 2 then decided to throw the out the window
TheVisionary25
TheVisionary25 - 4/11/2025, 11:58 AM
@ElJefe - think it could have been an interesting “Elseworlds” take honestly but oh well.

I don’t like Flyby as a title though.
ElJefe
ElJefe - 4/11/2025, 12:07 PM
@KurtCrawler - That’s a great point - they made one of the best CBMs of all-time that still makes lists today - Spider-Man 2 - a then almost immediately after that started to poop the bed.
ElJefe
ElJefe - 4/11/2025, 12:09 PM
@TheVisionary25 - I wish they’d make these into comicbooks - must be some kind of monetary reason they don’t but that or animated movie just feels like a no-brainer.
TheVisionary25
TheVisionary25 - 4/11/2025, 12:11 PM
@ElJefe - agreed…

That would have been cool!!.
THEKENDOMAN
THEKENDOMAN - 4/11/2025, 11:07 AM
Ok.

Let’s be honest here.

There is no way in hell any studio back in 2010’s was going to hire a gay man to Superman, that’s just a fact.

And Matt knows it, the reason why he’s not speaking up is because he doesn’t need that type of attention addressing it and he wants to work and keep getting it.

I commend him for that. Sometimes just ignore the bullshit, even if it’s true.

He would had been a great Superman though.

But when a door closes , a mother[frick]ing window must open.

Something good will come around the corner Matt.🙏🏾

For [frick]s sake

Jokerzreality
Jokerzreality - 4/11/2025, 1:36 PM
@THEKENDOMAN - They hired a gay man to play Lex Luthor in Superman Returns. They also hired an openly gay man to play both Magneto and Gandalf before that.

Not sure if it's a fact that they wouldn't a hire "a gay man" to play a iconic character, as history shows otherwise.

If you mean that they wouldn't turn the character of Superman into a gay character because the actor was gay, then sure. But that doesnt mean that they wouldn't hire a gay actor for the role.

Does him being gay means that he was more unlikely to get the role? Well probably, I could definitely see that being the case. However saying that there were "no way in hell" and calling it a fact seems to ignore the openly gay who did get cast in iconic roles, meaning there were always a possibillity of it happening with Superman as well given the circumstances had alligned just right
THEKENDOMAN
THEKENDOMAN - 4/11/2025, 1:51 PM
@Jokerzreality - Thanks for your breakdown mate. Supporting iconic characters, yes, that's an easy pass.

But lead iconic characters, I stand by what I said.

Unless you can show or prove me wrong, but from what I've seen I very much doubt that matey.
Jokerzreality
Jokerzreality - 4/11/2025, 2:20 PM
@THEKENDOMAN - Richard Chamberlain played Allan Quatermain as the lead, but yeah there arent many examples of openly gay actors playing leading roles, let alone iconic leading roles.

I also think that I'm slightly biased from growing up in Denmark. We have MANY examples of openly gay actors playing iconic danish leading characters from both the 90s and 2000s,but you did say "studio" as in Hollywood studio i pressume. Sometimes I forget that's a whole different culture and mindset in the US compared to here in DK (Even though we do share a lot of similar values), and Denmark was the first country in the world to grant legal recognition to same-sex unions in the form of registered partnerships in 1989, so I often forget that a lot of countries lag behind because it happens outside of my country.
THEKENDOMAN
THEKENDOMAN - 4/11/2025, 2:54 PM
@Jokerzreality - Yeah my man, Denmark is way more open to the LGTBQ community as leads from the looks of it.

I [frick]ing forgot Richard Chamberlain was gay, but didn't he come out much later on. Because back then it was taboo, remember Rock Hudson he didn't come untill very shortly before he died.

Buy you guys have brought out some heavy talent , Viggo, Mads, Nikolaj, prime talent 🙌
Biggums
Biggums - 4/11/2025, 3:30 PM
@THEKENDOMAN - He's gay in hollywood. Who ever thought he's stressing?
THEKENDOMAN
THEKENDOMAN - 4/11/2025, 3:46 PM
@Biggums - And that's my point.

He's not 👊🏿
NoDaysOff
NoDaysOff - 4/11/2025, 11:07 AM
I mean he's wasn't wrong...but my takeaway wasn't that he was playing victim.

Would be pretty brave if they cast an openly gay character in a major hetero role.

Can you imagine someone like Quinto as Batman or Luke Evans as Bond. That would be wild, but both great actors I can see do justice to the roles.
NoDaysOff
NoDaysOff - 4/11/2025, 11:08 AM
@NoDaysOff - openly gay actor**
ShimmyShimmyYA
ShimmyShimmyYA - 4/11/2025, 11:23 AM
@NoDaysOff - Luke Evans would kill as bond
McMurdo
McMurdo - 4/11/2025, 11:45 AM
@NoDaysOff - I mean Quinto played Spock. That's a huge pop culture character. Like gigantic
And he did a nice job IMO.
JurassicClunge
JurassicClunge - 4/11/2025, 12:00 PM
@NoDaysOff - today is learned that quinto is gay. Now you say it i can totally see it 😅
Batmangina
Batmangina - 4/11/2025, 12:00 PM
@NoDaysOff -

1. I had no idea Luke Evans was gay.
2. Quinto was the only thing worth a [frick] in the Jar Jar Star Trek Reboot
3. It's highly unlikely a gay Superman would ever be the best route to take.
ElJefe
ElJefe - 4/11/2025, 12:10 PM
@ShimmyShimmyYA @NoDaysOff

Man, now this is all I want
NoDaysOff
NoDaysOff - 4/11/2025, 12:34 PM
@McMurdo - Yeah but it was star trek. A property that's always kind of been ahead of curve in lgbq representation and to some aspects 'woke' culture. Imagine him as Batman! He would be pretty cool i think.
NoDaysOff
NoDaysOff - 4/11/2025, 12:36 PM
@Batmangina - Man, til this day i remember where I was and who is was with with i got told bad boy Magneto and legendary wizard Gandalf was played by a flamboyant and out gay actor. That probably changed my whole viewpoint (in a positive way)
NoDaysOff
NoDaysOff - 4/11/2025, 12:37 PM
@ElJefe @ShimmyShimmyYA

💯
Batmangina
Batmangina - 4/11/2025, 5:15 PM
@NoDaysOff - Right? I'm sure SOMEONE could have played Magneto well enough but no [frick]ing way is ANYONE going to ever convince me Sir Ian ISN'T [frick]ING GANDALF.

IDGAF who he shags.
Pictilli
Pictilli - 4/11/2025, 11:10 AM
Nah, he'd have sucked. Glad he had the sense to walk away.
Thebronxknight
Thebronxknight - 4/11/2025, 12:12 PM
@Pictilli - Shaddap Herman
Wahhvacado
Wahhvacado - 4/11/2025, 7:56 PM
@Thebronxknight - I am pretty sure it's Origame
DocSpock
DocSpock - 4/11/2025, 11:10 AM

I think he makes a good point. He doesn't want to be put in the giant box full of whiny gays who bleed victimhood and go nuts whenever they don't get everything they want.

He seems like a standup gay guy who has principles.



ObserverIO
ObserverIO - 4/11/2025, 11:22 AM
Is Brandon Routh not gay? He's gotta be bi at least, right. And Corenswet too for that matter. And what about that TV Superman? If he's straight then I'm a Tibetan monk.
HashTagSwagg
HashTagSwagg - 4/11/2025, 11:36 AM
@ObserverIO - I thought Brandon was gay too for awhile but I guess, I saw too many ads for that movie I can't remember, were he played a gay couple alongside Justin Long and it created this Mandela Effect.
Nomis929
Nomis929 - 4/11/2025, 11:38 AM
@ObserverIO -

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ObserverIO
ObserverIO - 4/11/2025, 11:39 AM
@HashTagSwagg - Zack and Miri Make A Porno.

Also there's the fact that if you're in a Bryan Singer film then you probably have to at least be gay in practice if not in intent.
ObserverIO
ObserverIO - 4/11/2025, 11:41 AM
And yes, this means that Hugh Jackman has indeed gone cheek to cheek, so to speak.
HashTagSwagg
HashTagSwagg - 4/11/2025, 11:43 AM
@ObserverIO - Cool, I can blame Kevin Smith and Seth Rogen on another thing.
TheVisionary25
TheVisionary25 - 4/11/2025, 11:37 AM
Bomer’s great and I have always enjoyed him in the roles I’ve seen such as White Collar ,Doom Patrol , Chuck , The Nice Guys etc.

I think he would have been a good Supes back in the day but atleast he’s gotten the chance to play 2 DC characters recently in Negative Man (Doom Patrol) and voicing Barry Allen/The Flash in the recent DC animated films , both of which he’s done well imo.

Maybe you could have him as Apollo in the Authority film?.

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Nomis929
Nomis929 - 4/11/2025, 11:38 AM
I thought he'd make a great Batman back in the day.
narrow290
narrow290 - 4/11/2025, 11:43 AM
OT: Peacemaker season 2 drops August 21st on Max!! Lets goooooo
MaximusTheMad
MaximusTheMad - 4/11/2025, 11:43 AM
Lol, even today, nobody would cast a gay man as a major heterosexual superhero.

The only exception is Kevin Conroy as Batman (may he rest in peace).
grendelthing
grendelthing - 4/11/2025, 11:50 AM
@MaximusTheMad - Boy, have I got news for you.... er, um. Well, I've heard some things.
slickrickdesigns
slickrickdesigns - 4/11/2025, 11:48 AM
Definitely not true.. Gunn loves sexual deviants 😅
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