"They Killed Masculinity", CAPTAIN AMERICA: BRAVE NEW WORLD's Anthony Mackie Comments On Raising Boys

"They Killed Masculinity", CAPTAIN AMERICA: BRAVE NEW WORLD's Anthony Mackie Comments On Raising Boys

Anthony Mackie speaks to the The Pivot podcast to talk about his more traditional methods of raising his boys while dealing with the fame of being Captain America.

By ChandlerMcniel - Mar 15, 2025 10:03 AM EST
Source: The Pivot Podcast

Anthony Mackie, the star of Captain America: Brave New World and the Marvel Cinematic Universe’s one and only Captain America currently, has spoken with The Pivot on the struggles of parenting, especially the struggles of parenting when you’re a movie star. 

He spoke on his methods of keeping his children humble even when their father is obviously quite wealthy. 

“I keep my boys humble. Like my boys have never had a pair of Jordans. My boys don’t do all that internet fly s**t. I could be the biggest star in the world. Do not let me catch you being stupid. My oldest gets it, my 15-year-old. He tell the other ones, he’s like, ‘Yo, don’t make dad mad.’ Once you get one that’s right, he’s going to straighten the other ones out.”

Mackie then said that, in the current American landscape, “...In the past 20 years, we’ve been living through the death of the American male. They have literally killed masculinity in our homes, in our communities for one reason or another. But I raise my boys to be young men. And however you feel about that, you feel about that.”

Mackie continued to speak about raising his sons to be polite and respectful. He follows the traditional methods of having his sons open doors for women and take care of and protect their mother. He’s been doing this, he says, since they were two years old or younger. “Every time I left for a job, I tell my 15-year-old, ‘You’re the man of the house. You make sure these doors are locked. Every night this alarm is on. You text me or you call me every night before you go to bed and you wake up.’ I love that because we’re men.”

Mackie continues onward to speak about his role in his house. He says that none of the fame he achieves or the money he earns matters if he’s never at home to raise his sons or protect his family. 

"Because we're men. If I'm not there to protect, he got to be there to protect. Because you can have all the money in the world, if a motherf---er climb through the window, that money means nothing. You can have all the ‘celebrity’ in the world, [if a] motherf---er jump through the door, that ‘celebrity’ means nothing. So you got to have a little guard there."

"It's just that.” He continued “That American male masculinity is something I think is very important for boys, because now, our little boys are afraid to fail, so they don't try,"

Mackie’s traditional methods may not sit entirely well with everyone, but he’s clearly open to sharing them and being subject to criticism or praise. 

Captain America: Brave New World seems likely to end its box office run as one of the lowest grossing Marvel movies. It’s predicted to land between 400 million dollars and 450 million dollars despite sitting at a 79% Popcornmeter fan response on Rotten Tomatoes as of this writing, but the 48% Tomatometer for critic response likely isn’t helping. 

The movie features the debut of several Marvel characters including Red Hulk, Sabra, Sidewinder, and more, but still hasn’t managed to match the financial success of Captain America: The First Avenger, The Winter Soldier, or Civil War.

Captain America: Brave New World stars Anthony Mackie, Danny Ramirez, Shira Haas, Xosha Roquemore, Carl Lumbly, with Giancarlo Esposito, Liv Tyler, Tim Blake Nelson, and Harrison Ford.

What did you think of Captain America: Brave New World? Is the movie being under hyped, or is it about as good as critics say? Let us know in the comments below!

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harryba11zack
harryba11zack - 3/15/2025, 10:19 AM
They also Killed the MCU
MakeAmericaGrea
MakeAmericaGrea - 3/15/2025, 10:51 AM
@harryba11zack -

🪦🪦🪦⚰️🪦🪦🪦

MCU
Marvel
DC
DCCU
Star Wars
Female only places
Female only sports
Star Trek
Doctor Who
Indiana Jones
Willow
Middle-earth
Harry Potter
Movie theaters
Men wanting to ask out women
Good music
Good art
Beautiful women in video games
Safety and beauty and sanity in large cities
Rpendo
Rpendo - 3/15/2025, 11:20 AM
@MakeAmericaGrea - You seem like you have a lot of time on your hands.
ObserverIO
ObserverIO - 3/15/2025, 11:27 AM
@MakeAmericaGrea - pretty sure they also took away muh freedom, muh guns and muh eggs now too.
BigPhilbowski
BigPhilbowski - 3/15/2025, 11:38 AM
@MakeAmericaGrea - get a job ya waste of space
fanboy03191
fanboy03191 - 3/15/2025, 1:01 PM
@Rpendo - That’s over half the users on this site.
AzraelGarou
AzraelGarou - 3/15/2025, 4:22 PM
@Rpendo - Jobless and layabout behavior, for sure.
Slotherin
Slotherin - 3/16/2025, 10:51 AM
@MakeAmericaGrea - large cities have literally always been a place for [frick]ery
BaddestOptics
BaddestOptics - 3/16/2025, 12:40 PM
@MakeAmericaGrea - you wrote that entire list but really only said "women I can goon to in video games". Thank you for not breeding. Not like you had a choice in the matter.
BaddestOptics
BaddestOptics - 3/16/2025, 12:41 PM
@Rpendo - no girlfriend, no kids and no friends means you can dedicate ample time to parroting Andrew Tate on comicbookmovie.com
Evansly
Evansly - 3/15/2025, 10:20 AM
Very good points. It really shows that parenting is about the effort and qualities you teach your children. Yes kids have a lot less manners than when I was growing up, but do mine? Hell no, I put in the time to ensure that those values were ingrained in them. I will always put in the work to make sure they have the qualities and values that I believe in.
MakeAmericaGrea
MakeAmericaGrea - 3/15/2025, 10:53 AM
@Evansly -

🤝
UncleHarm1
UncleHarm1 - 3/15/2025, 10:23 AM
Sounds like he's compensating for something
MakeAmericaGrea
MakeAmericaGrea - 3/15/2025, 10:52 AM
@UncleHarm1 -

What things do you compensate for, comradski?
UncleHarm1
UncleHarm1 - 3/15/2025, 11:55 AM
@MakeAmericaGrea - New article dropping in a few days

"Captain America star Anthony Mackie attempts to walk back comments about the death of masculinity"
BabyLasagna
BabyLasagna - 3/15/2025, 10:28 AM
All I hear is "please conservatives don't hate me"
DarthOmega
DarthOmega - 3/15/2025, 10:34 AM
@BabyLasagna - Because he's talking about raising his sons with honor, dignity, and to protect his home? Hmm... That says more about you than you realize.
Nightwing1015
Nightwing1015 - 3/15/2025, 10:44 AM
@BabyLasagna - he’s always been more conservative in his approach to relationships - not a new thing at all
TheFinestSmack
TheFinestSmack - 3/15/2025, 10:54 AM
@BabyLasagna - nah, it's called doing right by your kids and being a good, present father.
Wahhvacado
Wahhvacado - 3/15/2025, 10:57 AM
@BabyLasagna - Being a good parent shouldn't be political
MakeAmericaGrea
MakeAmericaGrea - 3/15/2025, 11:04 AM
@Wahhvacado -

He may not ever be a parent, it's not something he thinks he should think about for too long.
BabyLasagna
BabyLasagna - 3/15/2025, 11:41 AM
@MakeAmericaGrea - he is not my Captain America, he is not saying this because he believe in our cause, he is only saying this to get people to see his Brand New World movie.

He is not one of us and he will never be, he is a communist and trans


M A R G A
McMurdo
McMurdo - 3/15/2025, 11:52 AM
@BabyLasagna - bit of a stretch here bud
BabyLasagna
BabyLasagna - 3/15/2025, 12:03 PM
@McMurdo - shhh let me have some fun mate
Patient2670
Patient2670 - 3/15/2025, 1:21 PM
@DarthOmega - I think it's great that he's raising his kids with those qualities. I did the same with my sons. They're all admirable qualities, they're just not specifically "masculine" qualities.
DarthOmega
DarthOmega - 3/15/2025, 1:30 PM
@Patient2670 - Unfortunately I don't have sons. I teach my girls to go for the kinda boys Anthony is raising and to avoid the other boys like the plague
Patient2670
Patient2670 - 3/15/2025, 3:17 PM
@DarthOmega - My sons are grown now. Out on their own and I couldn't be prouder of them. I would have loved to have a daughter as well. I would have taught her all the same principles that I taught my sons.
DarthAlgar
DarthAlgar - 3/15/2025, 5:27 PM
@BabyLasagna - Haha. You idiots hear a lot of stuff that isn't actually said.

That's why you're all delusional nutjobs. 😆
CaptainFuryAgent
CaptainFuryAgent - 3/16/2025, 8:46 AM
@BabyLasagna - That is an idiotic statement. You have no idea of the context and audience. It is a podcast full of his homeboys, in a hometown neighborhood, with the focus on black culture, he had NO reason to be thinking about a conservative audience. In fact, the fathering comments were so deep into the conversation, that most causal and conservative viewers would have turned away due to the amount of profanity alone. The only reason I was still there is because I'm a Cap fan. Please practice less moronity.
Slotherin
Slotherin - 3/16/2025, 11:07 AM
@Patient2670 - that's admirable. Somewhere in here I found myself on the thought process that much of this is invaluable regardless of sex.
There are things that maybe should be accentuated for men as the stronger sex but protecting the home is everyone's job.
There's a reason for the mama bear trope and my weird ass Leo brain tends to view things in the world of lions where yes males are the big guns of the defense, but protecting the pride, the young, the home... That's everyone's job ultimately.
Slotherin
Slotherin - 3/16/2025, 11:28 AM
@CaptainFuryAgent - to be fair, conservative (and liberal for that matter) tend to have more application than people tend to credit...
Not saying as a defense to what Lasagna said btw...

Just that I sense people tend to think of extreme monoliths or that seems to be my observation on a lot of the critiques of either for what's perceived as conservative or as liberal. (I think a lot of people don't even seem to get you can have both fairly conservative and fairly liberal viewpoints but that's a whole other convo)

While I'll give credence that a particular kind of conservative may be turned off to the conversation and I'm sure it wasn't to appeal to that particular audience, it doesn't mean that there isn't an appeal to a type of conservative value within black cultures since while commonalities exist, it's not monolithic. -
Patient2670
Patient2670 - 3/16/2025, 2:02 PM
@Slotherin - Thank you. It's funny I tend to think of it in those terms as well. Evolutionarily, the reason for males being sent to hunt, or to war, is actually because they were expendable. The females were necessary for propogation of the species as well as far more fiercely protective of the young. I grew up as a fighter. I'm not a big guy, and only as physically powerful as that allows, so I learned to fight smarter. There's zero gender divide in intelligence. I've trained alongside plenty of women who I'd want fighting beside me over a lot of men. That's the type of people my sons are, and that's they type of person I'd want my daughters to be.
Slotherin
Slotherin - 3/17/2025, 11:26 AM
@Patient2670 - I'm gonna need you to stop sounding cooler with each sentence
Patient2670
Patient2670 - 3/17/2025, 2:08 PM
@Slotherin - LOL! Thanks. I'll do what I can.
TheWinkler
TheWinkler - 3/15/2025, 10:30 AM
Far too often do parents overstep the line of being the one who is in charge with making their child feel beneath them.

Mackie sounds like a dad who is of the highest authority and responsibility in his home, but when he is out, he entrusts some of those responsibilities, in this case, his oldest son and I think that sounds like a fantastic way to raise up a young man.

Kid knows who the boss is, and he knows the importance of the bosses job when he's home, and the boss gives him respect for that.
UncleHarm1
UncleHarm1 - 3/15/2025, 11:50 AM
@TheWinkler - I like what he said about raising his kids to be responsible, but raising them to believe that's a trait exclusively for men is pretty gross. "The death of the American male" is very dramatic and questionable
TheWinkler
TheWinkler - 3/15/2025, 12:17 PM
@UncleHarm1 - I can agree with that!
ANewPope
ANewPope - 3/15/2025, 10:34 AM
I don't know why I expected this comment section to not be miserable even when someone they "supposedly" hate makes a good general point about raising young men.
MakeAmericaGrea
MakeAmericaGrea - 3/15/2025, 10:58 AM
@ANewPope -

Men are a social cosntruct, comrade.
BabyLasagna
BabyLasagna - 3/15/2025, 11:41 AM
@MakeAmericaGrea - "Comrade"!?!?!

Classic communist
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