What Impact Have Comic Books or CBMs Had On Your Life?

What Impact Have Comic Books or CBMs Had On Your Life?

Yesterday we posted a story on the way that All-Star Superman prevented someone from committing suicide — which leads to the question: has your life been impacted in some way by comic books or the movies/TV shows based on them?

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By EdGross - Oct 18, 2010 07:10 AM EST
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As a medium, there is obviously a lot of love out there from fans for comic books, but do all of you view them as sheer entertainment or have they somehow played a role in your life? Have they served as a place to escape to, or perhaps in some way inspired you in your life or gave you something to hold on to when you were desperately looking for something?

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Brashlight
Brashlight - 10/18/2010, 7:57 AM
definitely nothing as drastic as preventing suicide, but my new found love for comics has allowed me, for the first time in my life, to feel complete as a person. i have been an athlete all my life and definitely embraced it. However, that side of me and the people i was around kept me from embracing the geek side of me and i never felt whole as a result of that, i was always hiding that side of my personality because i didn't think it was cool or i wouldn't be liked for it. embracing that side of me was the best thing i could have ever done! and it has opened up a whole new avenue of passion for me!
EdGross
EdGross - 10/18/2010, 8:00 AM
It's very cool to hear that. So often when we stop holding back and we embrace who we are, we end up with a much more fulfilling life. And why CAN'T an athlete also enjoy reading comics?
Brashlight
Brashlight - 10/18/2010, 8:01 AM
exactly, and to be honest i never felt like i fit in with jocks anyway. so it all ended up working out in the end!
Mileena16
Mileena16 - 10/18/2010, 8:04 AM
well, if i wasn't into comics and superheros, i would not have been a part of this website. if i would not have been a part of this website, i would have never met my now boyfriend :)
Brashlight
Brashlight - 10/18/2010, 8:06 AM
LOL, yeah i would say sorry but honestly i'm not :P
EdGross
EdGross - 10/18/2010, 8:08 AM
Mileena16, comic books work in mysterious ways.
marvel72
marvel72 - 10/18/2010, 8:13 AM
i've been collecting comics since i was fourteen.

when i was eighteen,the biggest impact that it had in my life was they helped me get through two months off work with a broken jaw my mouth was wired shut & i had a liquid diet.

quite depressing but i'm over that now.

i think it had a bigger impact on my wallet. :D
CrookedJaw
CrookedJaw - 10/18/2010, 8:14 AM
It's pretty much shaped my career and future goals haha...I'm a film student, and comic nerd
EdGross
EdGross - 10/18/2010, 8:15 AM
brazilianbatman and deadpool72 - ouch and ouch!
divo
divo - 10/18/2010, 8:16 AM
I'm going to say that Superman has really inspired me and made me want to be a better man. I'll say right now that Superman is definitely not the most entertaining superhero out there, but he is definitely the most important. The best role model ever created. Period.
BLADE4040
BLADE4040 - 10/18/2010, 8:16 AM
Im a ex-college football player and fighter
and I've been collecting comics,watching
cartoons,and playing video games since
I was in grade school(never hide the fact).
Im in my forties now
and still do so with my sidekick...my son.

I find it's a great way to bond with my son
and as a youngster along with sports I
think it help me stride to build the
heroic body I have today(my avatar is me).
My choice
of professions probally comes as no surprise
military & policeman....you know saving
the day and all that.
Denn1s
Denn1s - 10/18/2010, 8:19 AM
spiderman has made a huge impact on me. i would not be the person i am without him. comic books are practically my whole life and the reason i want to become an artist. working for marvel has been a childhood dream and i hope it will come true
siddiqmeah
siddiqmeah - 10/18/2010, 8:22 AM
Comic books and their movies have had such a major part in my life. From the age of 8 I was suffering from a form of depression that my parents did not want to treat using medication. I had no friends, was seen as somewhat of an outcast. I was good at my studies and showed some talent for creative writing. One of my biggest fears as a child was that I would lose my parents and would be left alone. It was around that moment that i discovered Batman comics and I was hooked. When my troubles got too much for me, i escaped to Gotham, where I could follow the life of someone who had lost their parents and rebuilt their life. My fears faded yet throughout all my troubles, Batman, Spawn, JLA, the Flash, Green Lantern, and Superman all offered me escape from my nightmare life. I got married and comics took a back seat, replaced by the movies which were more accessible to the wife. However the marriage didnt last and in the past 18 months i lost my job, had a major car crash and was left alone, only to find myself back into the world of comics. I am alone but comics are my savior...
LibertySeaOtter
LibertySeaOtter - 10/18/2010, 8:28 AM
Comics have gotten me through both my combat tours in Afghanistan and Iraq. It's a great way to get pumped up.
EdGross
EdGross - 10/18/2010, 8:30 AM
Some of these stories are amazing to hear.

brazilianbatman, you never know. When I was a kid, I had a great Superman Halloween costume, and on the shirt, bottom right hand side, were the words, "This costume will not allow you to fly." Obviously some kids had given it a try.
fire59019
fire59019 - 10/18/2010, 8:31 AM
Comic books have always interested me. The stories are excellent, and so much talent goes into a comic. I think that the comic industry gets overlooked a lot when it comes to talent.
I have enjoyed Marvel and DC Darkhorse has many good titles as well. Since I was a kid reading older Superman comics, some Indiana Jones and Iron Man comics I have always loved them.
It is great now because I can share them with my daughter who loves them, especially Iron Man, Batman and Superman. To see her get so excited is awesome.
The other night when I got home from work I gave her a new Iron Man action figure the way her face lit up was awesome!
DarthSpireite
DarthSpireite - 10/18/2010, 8:45 AM
Comics removed the chance of my social life getting beyond the pub and CBM's let everyone know how geeky I can get. I've even got my 3 year old running about shouting 'I am Iron Man!'. Whoops.
wagonburner
wagonburner - 10/18/2010, 8:47 AM
comic books were what always gave me a sense of identity. my sister before she passed away always supported me and comics. she would always buy me some whenever she went to town. i never got made fun of in my class like in the movies. they all excepted me as the Token Nerd. they never really understood why i liked them or what was so cool about them. until X-Men came out, Spider-man etc. then everything i knew became a pop culture frenzy, on the tee shirts of everybody, ppl talking about the movie they saw over the weekend. ppl asking me about the characters. that was years ago haha. now my girlfriend is hesitant of me showing our daughter the wonderful colorful world of comics.
AreTudaEDub
AreTudaEDub - 10/18/2010, 8:51 AM
My 3 year old and I are a lot closer (something that his mom wanted desparately) now that we both love super heros. It's great. But personally...I have the strongest connection with DC's Superman. They are the TRUE definition of heros. The Superman/ Clark Kent is so inspiration in the way he always stays true to himself and his upbringing. Growing up in an urban community, there was always a lot of negative distractions around that could have influenced me in the worst. Superman always seemed to be the man of steel because even when everything around him is falling apart he finds the strength not to break. Kids need those kinds of role models and characters growing up cause heaven knowns they wont find them on MTV,TMZ,BET...etc.

PS.

My son LOVES Batman!!!!!!
WOLVERINEDECADE
WOLVERINEDECADE - 10/18/2010, 8:51 AM
When religion and science can't explain to me what life is & how to enjoy it, i turn to comic books.

Especially MARVEL Comics

^_^
wagonburner
wagonburner - 10/18/2010, 8:52 AM
comic books were what always gave me a sense of identity. my sister before she passed away always supported me and comics. she would always buy me some whenever she went to town. i never got made fun of in my class like in the movies. they all excepted me as the Token Nerd. they never really understood why i liked them or what was so cool about them. until X-Men came out, Spider-man etc. then everything i knew became a pop culture frenzy, on the tee shirts of everybody, ppl talking about the movie they saw over the weekend. ppl asking me about the characters. that was years ago haha. now my girlfriend is hesitant of me showing our daughter the wonderful colorful world of comics.
RexDartEskimoSpy
RexDartEskimoSpy - 10/18/2010, 8:53 AM
Who here - unless they only discovered comics when they were older - wouldn't say that Spider-Man or Batman had an enormous influence on their sense of right and wrong, of duty and responsibility? Whenever faced with a moral dilemma, I just ask "What would Spider-Man do?" (I wouldn't recommend Batman as a moral compass, though. I mean, c'mon - he wears his underpants on the outside.)

Plus, comics taught many of us how to read. And I'm pretty sure Stan Lee had an enormous impact on this True Believer's vocabulary, not to mention an appreciation for gratuitous alliteration.
MarkCassidy
MarkCassidy - 10/18/2010, 9:06 AM
I've be4en reading since I was a kid. My bro bought me two Uncanny X-Men comics and then I was an instant Wolverine fanatic(still am). I guess as I got older and started to see that comics really diverse and discovered stuff like Sandman, it just really opened up my imagination. I never thought they would start making movies about these guys! Anyway, my interest allows me to write about all sorts of geeky stuff and has inspired me as a film maker too, so thanks comics!
HarrisonBergeron
HarrisonBergeron - 10/18/2010, 9:08 AM
I went from 320 pounds to 220 pounds because I want to be Bruce Wayne(or Oliver Queen). I wanted to know that I would have the option of doing the right thing in any situation I was presented with. I still have a ways to go performance and knowledge wise, but I am a whole hell of a lot better off now than I was as a fat ass.
smallvillefanricky
smallvillefanricky - 10/18/2010, 9:09 AM
Comics have let me go into my own made up world where u can go to where your down or feel abit crap...
its make your smile and gives you abit of inspiration on your own life,maybe not to dress up and go crime fighting..but what comics actually mean,they dont say go out and dress up,we all have our own personaly favourite who we ''look up too'' in a sense.
George88
George88 - 10/18/2010, 9:10 AM
Comic books have inspired me to become something different and showed what a true hero is. Not someone who scores a winning goal but someone who is willing to give their life to save someone elses. Comic Books also inspired me to start my own Comic Book Company called Legacy Comics which I sell in my town and is fairly big. I have 3 high school kids who work with me on illustration and story writing aswell as some friends. I have over 60 titles ranging from graphic novels, superhero stories, tales of heroes and kids comics. And CBM's also provide great viewing aswell as the animated shows.
comic2004
comic2004 - 10/18/2010, 9:19 AM

Here Impact it had on my family and my late father.

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IndridCold
IndridCold - 10/18/2010, 9:19 AM
After reading Punisher Max and Born I decided to enlist into the USMC after completing high school.
And in an odd way, Punisher comics have helped me to cope with my sister's passing and my mother and fathers illness's.
SpiderBat209
SpiderBat209 - 10/18/2010, 9:20 AM
The Killing Joke by Alan Moore, stopped me from making a HUGE mistake. Back when I left my Ex-wife, she stalked and kidnapped my kids from me when I took them to the park. The police couldn't return them to me because their was no custody prevention set when I filed for divorce. I would have to wait 1 month until we went to trial; that was if she hadn't fled the state with them already.

My relatives were furious and found were she and her boyfriend were staying and left it up to me, whether to do some serious damage and get my kids back. But then I remembered Commissoner Gordon's words when BatMan was going to kill the Joker: "No. We do this by the book. We have to show him that our way works." So I told them no, and instead waited for the trial. Two wrongs don't make a right, and my kids would've been the ones to lose in this whole custody battle had my relatives plans had gone wrong. So I waited. It was the longest month of my life.

When I finally went to court, I was awarded FULL physical and legal custody of my 5 kids, and showed the courts how unstable and volitile my Ex and her boyfriend were. I am forever indebted to Alan Moore for this, and I may never meet him in person but if I could, I'd tell him Thank You. From me and my kids. :)
DaenerysTargaryen
DaenerysTargaryen - 10/18/2010, 9:54 AM
Comic books and CBMs cured my twitardism and saved my sanity. Before I read comics and watched CBMs I was about as insane as a twilight fan can be. I was the type of fan you’d hear screaming her head off when a Twilight commercial came on tv. The girl who you’d dread to see come on a message board cause I’ll be swearing you off cause you don’t like Twilight. My room was covered in Twilight posters and Jonas brothers posters. I once entered a Twilight trivia contest and won. Somebody once told me that I looked like I was going to rip her head off when she had to take the Twilight book away from me. My friends and I literally worshipped Twilight. We took numberous pictures with a cardboard cut out of Edward Cullen and would fawn over the books non-stop. I even thought that one day I would marry Edward Cullen. Yeah…I was nuts.

I can’t pinpoint the actual time when I stopped liking Twilight but I’m guessing it was around the time the first trailer for New Moon came out. Coarse I was still the crazy twitard who was having R-rated Twilight dreams, I was freaking the hell out when I first saw the trailer. II had slowly started to stop visiting my normal Twilight fansite and was actually starting to develop a liking for Batman. I’ll be honest…at first I only watched the Dark Knight because I thought Christian bale was hot. After a while I started to read Twilight less and less. I wasn’t a full comic nerd yet (I remember once making fun of comics during the time I was a twitard) and I mostly just watched the movies. The first graphic novel I got was Batman: Long Halloween though that wasn’t the book that started my comic craze. It was Green Lantern: Emerald Dawn. I tihnk that started my craze. I stopped reading Twilight, tore down my posters, and began reading more comics. Ever since I read that I have fully developed a strong hatred for Twilight, and am now a sane comic book fan. Thank you comics for saving my sanity
BigK1337
BigK1337 - 10/18/2010, 10:17 AM
I guess comics pretty much gave me a personality of its own. In the past I have always watch cartoons based on them like Spider-Man, X-Men and (the legendary) Batman:TAS. I started getting into reading comics when I am in middle school just reading Ultimate Marvel (not really the best way to start, but it was interesting for me at the time) and some Batman.

After reading more and more of these things I begin to connect with some of these characters. Like for example The Flash, I just like his character for being this guy who likes to read comics and work hard later becoming a really well known hero in time. He basically inspire and show me that sometimes doing extrodinary things is a lot better then being regular.
And then there is Deadpool; and the one thing I like him is his insanity and attitude. He makes me want to express myself more as the person I am. Also, somehow, I feel that I might be insane myself with the way I always think that everything in comics and entertainment will actually happen to us. Either way, comics really did made me into a more fun person.
AlexDeLarge87
AlexDeLarge87 - 10/18/2010, 10:38 AM
When i were kid i was f*cking shy, but Batman, Superman and Spider-Man came to my life and they made me a lot braver! Without them i wouldnt have a girlfriend!:)
Spock
Spock - 10/18/2010, 10:47 AM
I have always loved comics & sports, Iam still a geek + sporty. But lately i have been laking in the sports area. Iam not afraid to show my love for things. They have always been for there as example of progression for our species. I stand for what is Right & Just. LIVE LONG & PROSPER MY FELLOW CBM'ERS!
spiderman620
spiderman620 - 10/18/2010, 10:47 AM
there were two comics that changed me forever and made me a comic book geek forever. the first was Amazing Spider-Man: Sins Past, we all have read this issue where Peter is being stalked and attacked by the twins of one Gwen Stacy, anyway thats not the point. that book was the first comic i ever picked up and i instantly fell in love with comics and supes, i dont remember how the book came to me but it did when i was going through a rough time in my life. my grandmother had been dealing with severe bone canser and we didnt know how long she would have left, but we werent on the best of terms from "sins past" that she had done to my family personally. another part that drew me to spider-man was that he was the lonely guy who didnt really get noticed by his peers or get the girl he loved, witch mirrored my own life. after that book i was changed forever i became a comic book junkie. the second book was a grafic novel by the name of "The Crow" by James O'barr. this book changed me by the story, the story of a love so strong and true that it brings him bake a year later to seek his revenge on the ones who killed him and his beloved. i can understand wanting to do that. its also just a powerfull story and a great read if your into comics. these books and others helped me out of some dark days in my life and im very greatfull that, they keep me from commiting suicide or anything, but allowed me a way to escape from it all, even if only for just a little while. and yes, the movies helped too hahaha
spiderman620
spiderman620 - 10/18/2010, 10:49 AM
@brashlight and ed- i believe you can love sports and comics at the sametime---me myself i love comics and im an avid musician
SHAZAM171
SHAZAM171 - 10/18/2010, 10:52 AM
Comic Books changed my life and still is. My father use to hit my mom when I was younger and my sister would lock up my brother and I in our room with her, with the Tv very loud so we wouldn't hear what was going on. She grabbed my Shazam and Superman comics and put them in front of me and said, " Promise me you'll grow up to be as great as these guys, Promise, you'll be like Superman?" I understood that very well, being a 4 year old. So now I'm a good person with great intentions. I go throughout my life helping people when I can, and listen to peoples problems when they are down. THERE ARE NO PERFECT MEN, JUST PERFECT INTENTIONS. My Dad went through counseling and now he's a very good father and husband ... and till this day he still can't understand why I love and read comics. LOL
COMICS BUILD GREAT CHARACTER AND MORALS FOR KIDS THAT ARE LOST OR UNCERTAIN ABOUT LIFE. Pass them down to your sons and daughter, nieces and nephews, neighbors kids... lead them on the right path. Become a Superhero in their eyes.
spiderman620
spiderman620 - 10/18/2010, 11:06 AM
nice job putting this article up. i think its a great ice breaker to get people talking and in a way bonding and becoming friends :) great work!!!
EdGross
EdGross - 10/18/2010, 11:08 AM
I personally want to thank all of you -- and those still to come -- for your responses. When I posted this story, I didn't know if it would get much in the way of people's replies, but based on that All-Star Superman posting, I just wanted to get a feel for what it all meant to you guys. Truly wonderful.
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