Why So Negative? How Pessimism Has Affected Our Community

Why So Negative? How Pessimism Has Affected Our Community

We all have the right to have an opinion, but sometimes I find myself wondering, "Why has this community become so negative and critical?" That's my question to you.

Editorial Opinion
By herofreak15 - May 10, 2014 05:05 PM EST
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    Before we get started allow me to introduce myself. Most of you don’t know me, but I’m Herofreak15 and I’ve been a member here since either 2010 or 2011 (I stumbled onto CBM a couple of times before I finally decided to register and become a member). I’m not sure which year, but it was when Marvel was casting for Thor and Captain America: The First Avenger. I went on to make a bunch of comments (idiotic ones at that; grammar has gotten better that’s for sure) and even used to talk to some of you guys through the chat room. For some reason I started posting less and less comments as the days went by until I just suddenly up and stopped posting comments altogether. I still visit the site daily, of course, but I’m mostly a lurker nowadays even though I have made a few contributions from time to time.

    With all that out of the way, let’s move on to why I’ve written this article in the first place: downright pessimistic opinions.  It’s true that everyone is entitled to their own opinions and that we should respect them so, HOWEVER the thing is… I’ve been noticing the continuous evolution of rabid opinion making in the comments section on here and my question to you is: why has this community become so negative and critical? I get that we have every right to bitch and moan as we please and set our expectations for comic book movies to a new high, but please stop saying that things look like complete and utter shit. Yes, some things may look like a turd at times, but STOP. "Why should we stop if that’s our stance on this particular movie, Hero?" I’ll tell you why.

     The reason being that you’re judging a movie that hasn’t even been out yet based on trailers and a couple of [frick]ing production stills, that’s why.  Stop focusing on all the ways a movie can go wrong and start focusing on the fact that if they do fail, we’ll probably end up getting another one that’s hopefully a better improvement in the next few years or so. Comments in the comments section here are flooded by so much pessimism more and more every day. Yeah, some CBMs were shit, doesn’t mean the rest we’re getting will be. Oh, and by rabid opinion making, I mean that some of you have started attacking others for simply disagreeing with your opinions. Jeez, you guys, it’s just a disagreement not a [frick]ing lighstaber duel. And make sure you know the difference between OPINION and FACT.

FACT: Drink too much alcohol and you get drunk.
OPINION: Alcohol is bad for society.


      Other users’ views on comic book movies and its fan community have become tainted because you’re becoming hostile toward people who may not be the hardcore type of comic fans you guys are. I admit that I’m not the hardcore type (I HAVE picked up comics in my life) and am more of the movie type. I’m sorry, but sometimes I don’t have the time to read comics (what with life and all) and I don’t exactly have the kind of money to buy them. “Why is it so terrible if a pretty girl who'd never heard of the Guardians of the Galaxy until a few months ago suddenly walks into your comic shop and wants to read about them?” Some people will like The Amazing Spiderman 2, others will hate it. Some people will think Captain America 2: TWS is shit, others will like it.

       Stop criticizing something you haven’t seen yet, stop attacking others for disagreeing with you, stop saying your opinions are facts, stop being hostile toward newcomers. Reserve your damn judgment and be positive. All this negativity is spreading and it’ll spread until eventually everyone thinks everything will be crap. 15 years ago, we were barely getting any of this glorious awesomeness, but now look around. CBMs have dominated our screens and will continue to do so even after you and I die. Today that we’ve gotten what we’ve so desperately been craving for many years prior, you choose now to bitch about every little thing. Some of you are never [frick]ing happy that we’re finally getting things we otherwise wouldn’t have been getting if it weren’t for X-men and Spiderman. No matter what you say, no matter what you do, and no matter how many times you say “I’m not going to see this piece of shit,” we all know your ass will be seated in the movie house on opening night because that’s the exact same position you found yourself in when the first X-men movie came out.
 
  Don’t be a critic. Be an optimist. Nuff’ said.
  Also, some you need to seriously stop editorializing your news articles.

(Yes, I do realize the irony of this post).
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SteveBosell
SteveBosell - 5/10/2014, 6:13 PM
I'm surprised this post hasn't blown up yet. Where is the DRG, my DD cohorts, the trolls, grif, gusto? This editorial is prime spamming territory.
Abary
Abary - 5/10/2014, 6:15 PM
"(Yes, I do realize the irony of this post)."

At least you recognize what you did here...

And yeah, people saying rights to X-Men/F4/Spidey should go back to Marvel is a great example. I want them to be done right, and I do believe that they can be done right, but give their respective studios a chance. DOFP looks great and Apocalypse can be a great movie, and Sony has a good idea of what they want to do with Spidey, so give them a chance to see how their plans will pan out. Besides, Marvel's schedule is too full. They have plans for the next decade, and they clearly have an idea of where they want their studio to go.
SteveBosell
SteveBosell - 5/10/2014, 6:16 PM
Well I guess I'll start things off then...

ruadh
ruadh - 5/10/2014, 6:20 PM
I totally agree. I don't understand the need to focus so much energy and attention on things that they claim to dislike so passionately. The best times I've had on here (and looking back, they're few) are when I can nerd out and get into discussions about the movies or shows I enjoy. There's always a killjoy or two who feel the need to complain about it, and make a general statement about the people who enjoy that thing, but it's nice when they're severely outnumbered and their comments slip by barely noticed.

Why not check out all the news articles about the things you like or are excited about? Why are you compelled to read every article about the things that don't interest you, or the things you claim to hate? And why take the time to comment on it?

I realize the big counter argument is usually "I have a right to my opinion, and can express it" etc. Of course that's true. It's entirely up to you. You're the one who chooses how you spend your time and energy, and if it's more important to you that you devote yourself to negativity, then of course that says it all about your character. Otherwise, go focus on the things that bring you joy.
SteveBosell
SteveBosell - 5/10/2014, 6:25 PM
The things that bring me joy: America, good food, entertaining movies, shooting guns, and women.
QuestionDAnswer
QuestionDAnswer - 5/10/2014, 8:16 PM
QuestionDAnswer
QuestionDAnswer - 5/10/2014, 8:16 PM
SilverFalcon
SilverFalcon - 5/10/2014, 10:12 PM
Couldn't agree with you man. I think we've definitely gotten spoiled now with how many CBMs we've been getting and it's grown more and more impossible for us to be fully satisfied with a film. I mean there was a time in the 90s when this genre seemed like a complete joke, and the only good CBM series around (Burton's Batman) had been completely destroyed by an awful director. Nowadays CBMS attract an insane amount of talented actors, upcoming stars (As well as veterans), award winning composers, outstanding visual effect companies, etc. Honestly we have no right to be complaining about it, and we should just enjoy the age of CBMs.
JillyMcBeam
JillyMcBeam - 5/10/2014, 10:48 PM
What this thread is missing is...

MrBlackJack
MrBlackJack - 5/10/2014, 10:55 PM
There are a few users on here that need something to unleash everything on. I have one particular user in mind (no it's not Doom or a troll) who has had one CBM each year that he's called downright disrespectful. In 2012 it was TDKR, in 2013 it was MOS, and this year it's TASM 2. I know that's vague, and that's kinda the point of keeping him nameless. Anyway, he's actually a cool guy but he posts more about how much he is let down and disappointed more so than posting something positive. Once again, generic, but that's kinda the point. I mean, while it sounds childish, the phrase "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything" needs to be brought up a little more on this site. Sheesh.
SilverFalcon
SilverFalcon - 5/10/2014, 10:55 PM
@herofreak15, Just read over my comment and meant to say "Couldn't agree more with you" lol. But yeah, its great to see someone who sees eye to eye with me on this, been lurking the site recently like you but you snapped me back into the commenting thread XD. Love your avatar btw.
MrBlackJack
MrBlackJack - 5/10/2014, 10:56 PM
Now...RELEASE THE TITS!
MrBlackJack
MrBlackJack - 5/10/2014, 11:01 PM
@SilverFalcon
SteveBosell
SteveBosell - 5/10/2014, 11:14 PM
Ah, the elusive MrBlackJack is here. Time to party.


Join me in the festivities MrBlackJack

SteveBosell
SteveBosell - 5/10/2014, 11:16 PM
Herofreak, I love your avatar. Regular Show is one of my favorites.
Thing94
Thing94 - 5/11/2014, 1:49 AM
People are too negative and there's a lot of pricks everywhere it's awful. Take the positive. Unless something is Batman and Robin proportion of letdown, relax!

The earth needs another flood people suck plain and simple
QuestionDAnswer
QuestionDAnswer - 5/11/2014, 2:13 AM
Klone
Klone - 5/11/2014, 4:51 AM
Um, that's not me is it? Cause whilst the last two fit my criteria exactly, I wasn't here in 2012 and I've only mentioned my dislike of TDKR and have acknowledged it as a good film from an objective standpoint.
MrBlackJack
MrBlackJack - 5/11/2014, 7:18 AM
Nah I wasn't referring to you MAK.
MrBlackJack
MrBlackJack - 5/11/2014, 7:22 AM
"I hear you are quite the legend on this site."
Klone
Klone - 5/11/2014, 7:27 AM
Hm... oh, now even I'm curious. Is he a DC or Marvel person?
DaVinci31
DaVinci31 - 5/11/2014, 8:33 AM
HulkOnion
HulkOnion - 5/11/2014, 10:22 AM
i totally agree. there are even some admins that have very short tempers. although since i dont talk shit over the internet they will remain unnamed
HulkOnion
HulkOnion - 5/11/2014, 10:23 AM
they can be very... critical. ill leave it at that. i dont wanna argue with them if they see this. i just want to have some speech freedom without having the ban-hammer come down.
HulkOnion
HulkOnion - 5/11/2014, 10:47 AM
im sorry it had to be said... nail
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