Remembering A Fallen Hero: What Stan "The Man" Lee Meant To Me

Remembering A Fallen Hero: What Stan "The Man" Lee Meant To Me

Stan Lee's passing is being mourned by comic book fans and celebrities alike but what did the legendary creator of heroes like Spider-Man and The Avengers mean to you? Here are my feelings on "The Man."

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By JoshWilding - Nov 13, 2018 10:11 AM EST
Filed Under: Marvel Comics
Last night, we learned that Stan Lee had passed away, aged 95. That's one heck of a run but it made the news no easier to deal with, especially when the last few years of his life have been consumed by false allegations of sexual assault and relatives and business associates alike reportedly robbing him blind. It was a sad end for the elderly comic book creator but things did appear to be looking up for him in recent months, so that's definitely something we can take solace in. 

Lee's impact on the world isn't one you need me to remind you of; he's created and co-created a huge list of characters and an argument could be made that while he may not have been responsible for dreaming up the likes of Batman and Superman, they probably wouldn't be around today had Marvel Comics not appeared on the scene in the 1960s and made superheroes cool again. 

It's thanks to Lee that we not only get to enjoy comic books today but also the movies that are based on them. Without him, there would be no cinematic universe; most definitely no Avengers and no Fantastic Four and X-Men for us to all eagerly anticipate joining that shared world spearheaded by Kevin Feige. His cameos in those movies have become a highlight for fans and non-fans alike (both my mother and fiancee - neither of whom have read a comic book in their lives - get a kick out of seeing him appear), while it's always a pleasure to get to hear his enthusiasm and excitement about the likes of Spider-Man: Homecoming and Black Panther even if he wasn't involved in them from a creative standpoint. 



A Stan Lee signing in 2012 I attended at London's Super Comic-Con
(yes, kids, cameras really were that crappy six years ago).

Without "The Man," ComicBookMovie.com almost certainly wouldn't exist and I can safely say that not only would I have ultimately chosen a different career but I may have also ended up being a totally different person (something I'm sure many of you can relate to). Growing up in the 90s, I idolised Spider-Man in the animated TV series which aired on FOX and just as my interest in the character started being put on the backburner due to other childhood distractions, he swung on to the big screen in a movie that changed everything for me. 

I may not have necessarily known who Stan Lee was at the time, but the release of Spider-Man in 2002 created a passion for superheroes which has never gone away and I stuck with them right through the 2000s, enduring the likes of Elektra and Fantastic Four all while finding something to love about them until superhero movies finally took a turn for the better in 2008. In 2009, I stumbled across ComicBookMovie.com and have been part of the site ever since, getting to write about the heroes and villains I adore as a full-time job and helping a website I fell in love with initially as just another commenter continue to grow. Had Lee not created these characters, myself and writers like Mark Cassidy and Rohan Patel would have nothing to write about and it's great to know that Lee's work will continue to have an impact for many, many years to come. 

In 2012, I actually got to meet the legendary comic creator at the London Super Comic-Con. His first convention appearance in the United Kingdom for a number of years, I jumped at the chance to have a comic signed by Lee and to take a photo with him (not to mention attend a panel in which he recounted creating Spider-Man, a story which I would later realise he told at pretty much every convention he appeared at). Finding a copy of Amazing Spider-Man #39 on eBay, I was a little disheartened in the queue that day to see I was one of probably a hundred people who had taken that issue to the event but it still sits proudly framed on my wall to this very day.




One of the best issues of Amazing Spider-Man ever with some killer art by John Romita.

As for meeting Stan, I couldn't help but be starstruck. Despite that, I was glad to get the chance to shake his hand and to say thank you for everything he'd done. It was a moment he no doubt instantly forget but one I will always remember. He didn't and will now never know the impact he had on my life but I'll forever be grateful for everything he contributed to this world, laying the foundations for characters who I believe will one day be looked back on - long after we're all dead - the same way the legends of Norse and Greek mythology are today. 

I met Stan Lee for all of thirty seconds but he was still someone who meant a lot to me and getting over his death won't be easy. He changed the world of pop culture forever and his creations have undoubtedly shaped us all into the people we are today. Whether that's because we could relate to Spider-Man's problems, were inspired seeing a blind man fight for justice or a man of colour lead The Avengers, his creations will stand the test of time and I know that he will never be forgotten. He truly was "The Man" and you just know he's up in heaven regaling everyone with the many incredible tales he shared with us over the years. Excelsior and RIP, Stan. 



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bobevanz
bobevanz - 11/13/2018, 10:32 AM
Great article Josh. He may be gone but NEVER forgotten!
willyburz
willyburz - 11/13/2018, 10:32 AM
Solid story, props👍👍
BigMikeReviews
BigMikeReviews - 11/13/2018, 10:34 AM
Nice tribute Josh, this came straight from the heart and we thank you for it.
Vigor
Vigor - 11/13/2018, 10:34 AM
Oh so Josh is a real person, with like feelings n stuff
bkmeijer2
bkmeijer2 - 11/13/2018, 10:36 AM
Nice one Josh. Although I've never met him, I agree completely that he had an enormeous influence on pop-culture, but also on any of us on this site in some way or the other (including myself ofcourse)
MrDandy
MrDandy - 11/13/2018, 10:40 AM
Great Tribute, Josh! He's always been one of my heroes and inspirations as I continue my writing and film career. He left a lot of characters to us and most importantly he taught us the most important thing for your heroes is to give them real, relatable humanity.
Nebula
Nebula - 11/13/2018, 11:04 AM
I often think about the butterfly effect when bored. Chain-of-events, how one thing led to another, all that. It's absolutely crazy to think about how much of an effect Stan had on the world. I would not be surprised if every single person alive right now has been affected by his work in some way. This post (which is awesome, good job Josh) just solidifies that idea for me.

I wouldn't even know my girlfriend if not for being paired together on-account of our shared love of the MCU, and obviously there's no MCU without the comics and Stan. I'm sure most of you are the same but, since last night, I can't look at anything vaguely Marvel related without thinking about Stan, the seemingly impossible feat he accomplished, and the mind-boggling legacy he's left behind.

It's tearjerking how inspirational he is.



HeavyMetal4Life
HeavyMetal4Life - 11/13/2018, 11:04 AM
Its pretty awesome to see all the tributes flowing in across all the media platforms, goes to show just how much of an influence and trailblazer Stan the Man was. There will never be another person like Stan Lee, but his influence will never wane as we continue to enjoy the characters and world he helped to bring to life. Rest in power Stan and thanks for all you've contributed for us to enjoy. Excelsior!


Iports
Iports - 11/13/2018, 11:19 AM
Great josh was good read thank you
MrCamw1
MrCamw1 - 11/13/2018, 11:35 AM
Goodbye Mr. The Man. May you rest easy now being together again with Joan. And Josh.....good article and tribute.
MasterMix
MasterMix - 11/13/2018, 11:37 AM
Here's my tribute:
How Stan Lee impacted my life
I first got "Marvel's Greatest Superhero Battles", a collection of comics when I was about 7 or 8 years old. Before then, everything I knew about superheroes was mostly from the movies, like X-Men. Seeing Spider-Man in 2002 changed my life. It's the reason I love movies as much as I do now. It wasn't until I got this comic that I truly understood the man behind them. This comic, along with Stan Lee's appearance on The Simpsons, inspired me to create my first superhero in 2003. From then on, I've never stopped creating. When I was old enough to notice, I caught every Marvel movie cameo of his. I watched all of his documentaries, TV shows, and anything else he helped create. I've seen every single Marvel movie (MCU or otherwise), show, and read a handful of his comics. I knew when his time came, it would hit me harder than any other celebrity death. Not many people know the man behind the mask, but I've known pretty much my entire life. I'm just glad his impact was able reach so many people. And not just the hardcore nerds like me. 'Nuff said.
SuperCat
SuperCat - 11/13/2018, 11:40 AM
MrMasculinity
MrMasculinity - 11/13/2018, 11:45 AM
😢
GeneralZod
GeneralZod - 11/13/2018, 11:50 AM
Nice tribute, Josh.

99OPTIMISTPRIME
99OPTIMISTPRIME - 11/13/2018, 11:51 AM
Beautiful.❤️
MosquitoFarmer
MosquitoFarmer - 11/13/2018, 11:56 AM
I connect to Craig Ferguson on a personal level for my addictive qualities, plus he's funny as ever-loving hell; but Stan Lee (the legend) is a darn riot in these interviews. Give this video a watch.

thingrock4
thingrock4 - 11/13/2018, 11:57 AM
RIP Stan Lee i will always miss you though i never met you i did see you at Megacon at got your autograph. You were my idol. You were my influence. You were family. EXCELSIOR!!!!!!
WarnerBrother
WarnerBrother - 11/13/2018, 12:10 PM
I got to see Stan Lee at a Comic-Con panel with Mark Hamill a few years back which turned out to be
one of the best ones I ever attended. The back and forth between those two legends was some of the funniest
CBM commentary I ever heard. This was in 2015 and Stan had the place roaring when he made his pitch to WB
about doing a cameo in the upcoming Batman V Superman. It would have had a confused Stan walking into a
scene at the Daily Planet or Wayne Enterprises and getting stopped by security who would say "You don't belong here"

I'm more a DC guy but the thought of Stan crashing the true launching of the DCEU would have been hilarious and in hindsight, WB should have done it.

After the panel, my teenaged sons and I were in the hallway outside a nearby ballroom waiting for a Batman panel
when here comes Stan Lee and security being escorted down the hall. I said "Hey Stan" and one of my sons may have
said "Excelsior" and Stan said "Hey guys" as he was moved along.

It was so thrilling just to have that exchange with a guy who influenced my life since seeing Spider-Man on the PBS
Electric Company children's show in the early 70's (which got me to add Marvel Comics to my comic book collecting)
and the lives of my sons who were introduced to Marvel by the films that started coming out shortly after they were
born.

Thanks, Stan

Kumkani
Kumkani - 11/13/2018, 12:15 PM
Great article and lovely read, Josh.

Rest in Power Stan Lee.
DarkArrow19
DarkArrow19 - 11/13/2018, 12:24 PM
Great article Josh. Definitely your best written article on here.
knocturnalzen10
knocturnalzen10 - 11/13/2018, 12:31 PM
now this is well done writing and compassion Josh


good job sir
lawndart
lawndart - 11/13/2018, 12:39 PM
Well done Josh.
AC1
AC1 - 11/13/2018, 12:39 PM
Yesterday was a long day. Work wasn't going great and I ended up leaving a few hours later than I was meant to as a favour. When I got on the bus to go home, I started browsing online on my phone when I saw the first article break the news.

I'd hoped it wasn't true - that it was just another one of those sick online hoaxes made up by some disturbed creep with nothing better to do - but deep down even then I knew it was true. And then more sites started running the story and soon we got statements from his family confirming it. The entire way home, I sat at the back of a bus full of strangers on the verge of tears. I don't think I'll ever forget where I was when I learned that Stan Lee died.

When I got home, I shut myself in my room and cried for a man I'd never met, yet who probably had one of the greatest impacts on my life. Aside from my parents, I can't think of anyone who taught me more than Stan did through his works and his characters: That a lonely, geeky kid could do great things. That our imaginations are the most powerful thing we have. That, even though doing the wrong thing might be easier, we must always strive to do what's right. That "with great power, there must also come great responsibility."

I've always wanted to go to Comic Con, but never managed it. I've always wished I could meet Stan in person, just for a moment, but now I never will. That's gonna be one of the biggest regrets of my life, even though it wasn't really something I could control. All I can do now is hope that I can live my own life as fully as he lived his, and strive to change the world and touch people's lives even half as much as he did. It's an impossible goal, but that won't stop me from trying - Stan wouldn't.

Josh, you were lucky to have met him even for as fleeting a moment as you did. It's rare that you get to meet your heroes and for them to affect your life as wholly as Stan affected so many of ours. I know you'll cherish that.
lawndart
lawndart - 11/13/2018, 12:57 PM
I grew up on Marvel books in the 70s and 80s. Stan still had a regular presence and influence. Most of the books we would get were worn out copies we'd bought at a flea market because we couldn't afford much. A lot were reprints of 60s issues so there was a lot of Stan, Kirby, Ditko, and other legends. They were great books with wonderful stories.

Stan, by proxy of his characters, gave me, all of us, examples of courage and perseverance, how to stand for something even when it seems like everything and everyone was against you. In this same way, he also taught me that it was ok to be odd, a bit dorky. And I was.

Years later, I'd wear a CPT America embroidered shield inside my helmet or on my vest when I was in other countries. It reminded me of those stories and always got me through. I still have it on a shelf, a bit tattered and worn.
Just like this older nerd.
Thanks Stan. You will always be "the man."
Liverpool4life
Liverpool4life - 11/13/2018, 5:32 PM
Reading through his 1960s scripted Fantastic Four (during the early to middle 1970s) got me hooked on comic books.
benjithegreat
benjithegreat - 11/13/2018, 7:00 PM
Now, more than ever, they need a really good Stan Lee action figure
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