The best Spider-man movies to date so far are... SPIDER-MAN 1 and SPIDER-MAN 2.
TASM movies - cringe worthy, and forgettable.
The characters in Spider-man 1 and 2 - realistic and emotional.
The characters in TASM 1 and 2 - point blank faces and contain no sympathy.
For those who are going to come in and say Tobey Maguire was a horrible Spider-man, that wasn't Tobey's fault, it was the writing and directing at faults.
Conclusion: TASM franchise and castings were all rushed and made by Sony just so they can keep the rights to Spider-man. There is no motivation or soul in the franchise, just an empty charm, that's all.